{"id":548,"date":"2004-10-25T09:36:59","date_gmt":"2004-10-25T07:36:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.anjameulenbelt.nl\/weblog\/?p=548"},"modified":"2004-10-25T09:38:23","modified_gmt":"2004-10-25T07:38:23","slug":"the-meaning-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.anjameulenbelt.nl\/weblog\/2004\/10\/25\/the-meaning-of-love\/","title":{"rendered":"The meaning of love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hi Anja<br \/>\nI miss you very much; This is a real experience that happened to me last week<br \/>\nI hope it would fit the weblog<br \/>\nYours<br \/>\nRamadan<\/p>\n<p><strong>Palestinian Meaning of Love<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Everywhere in the world love has the same meaning and deals with the same<br \/>\nemotions.  It is very clear for everyone in the world when to love and what<br \/>\nis it he or she are talking about.  Actually, it is very very clear for us<br \/>\nas Palestinians what does it mean and how does it look like to love and to<br \/>\nbe loved, but it has a special taste and takes lots of efforts to digest<br \/>\nthis taste for non Palestinians. <!--more--> Because of this I choose to talk about it<br \/>\nand try to make it clear for the non Palestinians what is the definition of<br \/>\nlove for us Palestinians.  It is very clear in an experience I went through<br \/>\nlast week.  I went to visit a friend in Jabalia who lived very near to the<br \/>\narea that was attacked by the Israelis.  This friend is one of my best<br \/>\nfriends and we love each others, the Palestinian way.  He is actually 6<br \/>\nyears older than me, but we are still good friends.  The first thing I<br \/>\nencountered in Jabalia was the black color that was covering all Jabalia<br \/>\n(black color means sadness).  This time the black color was covering<br \/>\neverything in Jabalia, not only people were wearing black cloths.  I went to<br \/>\nthe area where the tanks had been acting; I had to walk due to the destruction<br \/>\nof the infrastructure of Jabalia.  I walked around 2 kilometers and I was<br \/>\nthere.  No way, this was my first reaction, I was very shocked and I could<br \/>\nnot hide my tears.  Nothing was there.  No houses, not trees, no roads, it<br \/>\nlooked very much like a playground with lots of tanks marks.  I tried to<br \/>\nrecognize the area where my friend used to be living and the house that I<br \/>\nhad spent lots of times in it, but it was impossible.  My friend was not<br \/>\nthere, I did not tell him that I was coming.  I could hardly recognize a<br \/>\npiece of his car that was thrown away and covered by sand.  I walked<br \/>\ntowards it and there was a very big piece of wall also burried under the<br \/>\nsand.  I moved it and tried to clear it, people asked me if I am looking for<br \/>\nsomething.  I told them about my friend and they told me that I was exactly<br \/>\nstanding on top of his house.  I kept digging like crazy in a try to find<br \/>\nthe doorbell and to reach the guests room where I used to meet with my<br \/>\nfriend.  It was a surprise for me, I found a very nice red rose coming out<br \/>\nfrom in between the ruins.  It was looking for help to reach for the<br \/>\nsunlight.  This was the love I was talking about, the love of life.  This<br \/>\nrose wanted to live and fought against everything to stay in connection with<br \/>\nthe land and with the sun.  It showed me how great the Palestinian love is,<br \/>\nand the meaning of this rose to choose to live underneath the ruins.  Oh my<br \/>\nGod, would you expect to see a rose rising there.  I stood there for about<br \/>\nhalf an hour trying to understand what was going on with this rose.  The<br \/>\nonly logical thing I came out with is that this is showing clearly the<br \/>\nmeaning of the Palestinian love of life and of this land.  I also<br \/>\nencountered another manifestation of the Palestinian love which was the way<br \/>\nJabalia people acted after  the attack.  All people who lost their houses<br \/>\nare living now with their relatives or friends.  Do you know how?  Each<br \/>\nfamily in Gaza is on average about 7 members and the medium housing<br \/>\ncondition is about three small rooms.  I will let you imagine it.  Is not this a<br \/>\ndifferent taste of love?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hi Anja I miss you very much; This is a real experience that happened to me last week I hope it would fit the weblog Yours Ramadan Palestinian Meaning of Love Everywhere in the world love has the same meaning &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.anjameulenbelt.nl\/weblog\/2004\/10\/25\/the-meaning-of-love\/\">Lees verder <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false},"categories":[1,2],"tags":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.anjameulenbelt.nl\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.anjameulenbelt.nl\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.anjameulenbelt.nl\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.anjameulenbelt.nl\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.anjameulenbelt.nl\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=548"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.anjameulenbelt.nl\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.anjameulenbelt.nl\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=548"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.anjameulenbelt.nl\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=548"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.anjameulenbelt.nl\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=548"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}